Can I save my marriage?

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Well my computer still isnt fixed and its so hard to update and read anyone else's situations on my cell. Hopefully get it back tomorrow and spend some serious time on here catching up. My situation is perfect at times and horrible at times. I have come to realize that I have a husband that wants to be married 50% of the time and single 50% of the time. Not sure how to handle it. He is taking it to the extreme. I an okay with giving him some freedom but not to party three times a week. Especially when he isnt a partier in the first place. Never has been. Not sure if he is testing me or if this is the new life he wants.