I'd suggest you go to Dane's thread and find out what I recommended to him. I really don't have the time to re-type everything, but the roadmap is all in there.
Do you think you can suck it up and basically "fake it" while you gather some more intel? It would really help you. Because right now, all she has to say to you about multiple TMs is, "Oh, that? We're just friends."
Not that I believe it FOR A MINUTE, but you need more.
