Hi, whatnow! I just found your thread today. I am not in your same sitch, but my WH did fantasize about OW moving in with us long ago!!! barf!

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although I am sure she wants to replace me and live my life, have my
beautiful home, raise my kids, have my friends, etc


YES She is trying to live your life by stealing your WH!

Why not email him the reminder AND suggest automatic deposit into your account?

Check out Daybyday's thread, for she is a SAHM for 20 years or so and has alawyer giving her advice for how to deal with her husband's refusal to pay.

And stay dark!!! good job-see after a couple of weeks he is already emailing you? Figure out what you want during this dark time.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004