Something is up, serious red flag, exactly what I found also. I did not listen to Puppy or others and was way too hasty and not prepared. So listen to Puppy!!!!! Keep your cool and do the investigative work if you want to confront and keep the marriage, again listen to Puppy on how, what and when to do this. I used a sony digital voice recorder($60) and velcro'd into the sunroof. Only listen if you have a strong stomach, I did not listen right away had to wait. The phone bill is easy, the reverse look up is easy, you can find people easy on the internet for free or for a small fee. Dr. Huizenga has an interesting and accurate way to look at the different type of affairs, and what and how to do things, all consistent with DB. Good luck, we all know the feelings you are going through. It sucks, I will keep you in my prayers. People on here are very supportive and wnat to help.
