When I think about that day. I think being silent will say more than any word can. I will let her fully look into my eyes before and afterwards. If I shed some tears I will not hide them. For I am not ashamed to show my emotions now. I am not afraid of myself. I do not hide from myself. I also think that as my wife she is allowed to fully see the consequences of her actions and how deeply she hurt me.
Actually, this makes me teary eyed but it is an example of how your actions will speak louder than words! If she sees you crying, she can wonder if it means you don't want to end your marriage. And wondering is enough if later one day she wants to seek you out, IF you are available.
Wow. Separation in your part of the world means the same as divorce. I had no clue this whole time. Excuse me for saying this, but WHAT A FOOLISH WOMAN Ladybug is being for giving you up! Wow. I don't want to slam her too harshly because I don't want you to be offended. I do love how you know this:
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I want to make sure I am finacially protected for when her Affair ends and her work enviroment falls apart.
Yes, the A WILL end!
By the way, what is going on with the female friend you are helping to learn boundaries?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
