Thanks for all the input. I have thought about this off and on all day. I have decided to email him a reminder about what needs to be deposited, when and why each month. The biggest reason I want to do this is to show him that I am functioning and taking care of business as usual, rather than distraught and unable to get out of bed.
As far as our finances go, I will always be dependent on his income. I have been a sahm for 20 years, no hope of returning to my career. My income wouldn't make a dent in our monthly expenses. I have been assured alimony until our retirement account kicks in. Not a good time to sell assets either...we'd both get screwed.
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