P, it is really great that your changes are evident to others! It means they are real! great job improving yourself; I'm especially impressed with the fact you improved your listening skills--that gives me an idea to do the same!!bravo!
Thanks NM. The listening skills was the first one I learned. Problem is, being to strongly opinionated, I tend to butt in sometimes and offer that opinion rather than letting the other person just talk and get it off their mind.
I need to keep reminding myself that women don't want us guys to fix things, they just want us to let them vent to us. If they want an opinion, they will ask for it!
I am a different guy. A much calmer person than I was before. Far more understanding, compassionate and forgiving. Somebody who understand that the small stuff doesn't really matter.
I will keep the changes coming. For me. Nobody else.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
