RW...I too feel that intense hate for the OW and never really knew what it was to hate someone! I've asked myself what kind of person knowingly tries to steal a father from his kids? A friend gave me "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man" by Steve Harvey. There is a chapter in about why men cheat. In it he says that women who are willing to cheat with a married man "have no standards and requirements and who suffer from serious self-esteem issues, making themselves willing to cheat and available to be cheated on." I don't know if that helps at all! I have always had lower self-esteem but not THAT low!!! Makes us better than them because WE would never do that. right?


M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing