Nothing much to report. My W and I have basically been ignoring each other while we are together in the house. I spent my free time playing with my sons and getting paperwork together for the L.
I went out with a friend the other night and he basically told me to look into my W having an A. I guess he and his W have has very, very strong suspicions based on things my W said to his W. I asked him why he didn't tell me sooner and he said that they didn't want to get in the middle of what was going on. He also said that he had hoped it would work itself out. I thanked him for at least coming forward now and he said better late than never. He also said that my W is going to have a rude awaking once she moves out and has to start fending for herself. Hopefully this is the dose of reality she needs.
The problem is at this point I am really questioning if I would take her back. I guess that is a good thing to ask but scary at the same time.
I found it interesting that my W scheduled an IC appt next week. Not reading into it but still interesting none the less. She is the type of person that doesn't have anything wrong with her and would always say during MC that the issues with the R/M were mine. Hopefully she'll get something out of going.
Tomorrow starts another week in the count down to my W moving out.
M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3 M: 5/28/05 Bomb: 8/22/09 EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09 W L: 10/21/09 M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10