Norm I am relatively new to this site but I dealt w/ the cellphone sitch. Found out my H was texting/calling OW back and forth nearly 60 times per day. What my H did, or so I think, was call the cellphone company and had the OW's numbers blocked from showing up on his detailed phone bill. Yes that is possible cuz I have the same cellphone company and I emailed them about it. Don't know if your wife would think about that but just giving you a heads up. 1st thing I did was print a few copies for my records cuz I don't want to try to get into my H's cellphone acct again...I plan on sending the OW's H a copy.