Hi Friends,

My old thread is buried and I feel it is best to start this new year off with a fresh thread!

I am 34 and have been legally separated since Nov. 17th, 2009. My H and I were married for 10 years. He dropped the bomb on March 2, 2008, moved out in April of 2008 under totally false pretenses, loads of BS happened that I don't care to rehash unless it would help somebody reading this and a nearly two year legal battle happened. My H had an affair. I guess "had" is the wrong verbiage as he is still with his affair almost two years later.