The truth of the matter is that YOU are playing the victim here. Others seem to be enabling you to continue to play it too.
How sad..
Is anybody making you stay and allowing this?
Is your wife forcing you to stay in this and accepting her behavior?
If she isn't making you stay or forcing you to accept her behavior then you are getting exactly what you deserve.
Stop this nonsense and stop playing a helpless victim while trying to claim that your wife is doing the victim routine. It is actually you playing the victim role and it is others on here enabling you to play it that is the problem. It isn't doing you any good to play the "poor poor Thinker" role.
Thinker.. You have been at this for going on TWO YEARS NOW. Grow up. You are a grown man still posting like a victim on this site. You don't seem to show much growth for as long as you have been at this. It really isn't rocket science. Get a hold of yourself man. TWO YEARS Thinker..TWO YEARS....
This whole thing will change when YOU stop being such an indecisive man who is waiting on his wife to decide the outcome here. Then you play the victim while you ALLOW this to continue on... How sad.. How very sad.
Your answer has been the same for quite some time now. (MONTHS) YOUR WIFE WANTS OUT. You just can't seem to accept it and admit it... Let her know you "get it" and things will change.. Take the lead here. YOU file. YOU tell her YOU want it over.. YOU.. YOU.. YOU.. What YOU want.
File for divorce and take the lead here. Confident, decisive and matter of fact.. It is when you finally stop playing the victim here that you will be set free. Not before.
