I'm sorry to over-answer as always, bring it back to me, when this is about you. But I'm just a romantic ol' fool. And that's how I handled it.
Do what's in your heart.
Not at all. Thanks, Gardener.
I am doing some soul searching on this. Taking off the ring at this point seems to me to say to her, “I give in, I give up. You can have your way and have your divorce.” And that is NOT how I feel at this point. Additionally, she’s in the throes and fog of an affair right now. I don’t want to give in to her decision-making processes at this point.
At the same time, I just can’t get past the idea that wearing the ring looks to her like I’m pathetically hanging on. I was really strong yesterday. I want to keep that going.
Which makes me look stronger? Wearing it or not wearing it? That’s the question.
H: 50 W: 48 Married 20 years Bomb and separation: 9/12/09 A discovered 12/02/09 http://tinyurl.com/yctnhec
