Truthfully, it scared the hell out of me as he talks about how they never get over or truly fall out of love with the OW!
In my case I can say that truly has not been the case. My H can't believe he did what he did now and is ashamed that he acted as such a cliche.
Just concentrate on each other and mending those broken bridges and on making new happy times.
You have gone through the period of your M when your attention was necessarily diverted away from one another by raising children etc. Now is the time when you can rediscover one another......and what it is you love about one another, at the same time as looking at the wonderful children you have raised.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
