Originally Posted By: patpat
I will not take mine off until I decide that my marriage is over.

And yes, you ARE still married....


Thanks, Pat. This was kinda my thought as well – that I wouldn’t take the ring off until a divorce is final, if that’s how things turn out.

Sometimes I just want to shake my W and say, “HONOR YOUR VOWS!” Of course, I can’t do that. It would only drive her away. But it sure would feel good to say it.


H: 50
W: 48
Married 20 years
Bomb and separation: 9/12/09
A discovered 12/02/09
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