Hi guys,
hiya lodo, what's up? You are probably right, Rob you too. I think this is a process that I am going through. Like everything else we had to do here, there is no easy way out, no short cuts. The only possible way would be a lobotomy and that is a bit too drastic for my case. (I think)

The weekend was stable. Not any big ups and downs, we had a good time with friends of ours. H is seeking me out in the mornings for a kiss and hugs me sometimes at night. During the day we are "compatible" and get by.

Today we had a good discussion about something irrelevant to us but something we werent 100% on agreement and it went fine. Little things like that are what we are missing. Not being afraid to disagree and discuss in a civilised (lol) way. Very simple you would say but not so easy for us right now.

We also said something about the future. He is changing the little car and we said we should look into changing our kitchen cabinets and fixing our little bathroom. Didnt discussed these but WE made some kind of FUTURE plans.

The week that starts tomorrow will be the first full working one after the holidays. We'll see how it goes...
Hope everyone is ok.
K


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Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007
Reconc.November 2009