Thanks for the advice. It feels very right to me. I do feel like I am dating my H! I picked up a used "His NEeds, Her Needs' book by Dr. Harvey of Marriage Builders. Truthfully, it scared the hell out of me as he talks about how they never get over or truly fall out of love with the OW! The book talks about a guy who went back to OW after 6 years. The rest of the book was good. I guess I can live without trust or feeling very secure as I lived with lies and deceit and didnt know it for quite a long time. I am happy when he is around and glad our family is back together. It is so good to hear other people have experienced similar things.
