Wife still has the kids today and I am debating whether or not to go by and say goodnight like I had requested. To be honest I am a big wimp. Everytime I go over there I see something I do not want to see (e.g., christmas cards) and I am not to interested in seeing another set of tire tracks (snow) in her drive way; so I try to stay away.
The W and I developed a rotating kid schedule. One week I have them on MO, TU and then on Sat and Sun; the following week I have them on WE, R and FR. The cool thing is I work from home so I meet them everyday after school at the bus stop and when the W has them, she drops them off at the house in the morning so I can take them to the bus stop so she can to work on time. I get to see the kids much more than the W so that is a good thing. Another important D issue, is when the W bought a new house, she moved out of the current Elem school district. Thus, I will be the residential parent, which I have heard is a big deal.
If I could get past the OM factor I would be in such a better shape. A divorce is hard enough let alone with all of this other crap to deal with. Her family is very conservative so I am suprised they have not given her and earful for what she is doing. I guess they need to support her. Maybe she is very happy around him and they can see that.
