I agree with you, actions speak louder than words. I just want him to man up and say it to my face, rather than taking the coward's way out as he has been...but that clearly won't happen so I won't bring it up to him again.
Right Lola, out with the old! I am reorganizing the home office as part of my 2010 resolution to be more organized with my records and my finances. I want to get on track with the Dave Ramsey Total Money Makeover. The goal is to get yourself debt-free except for the house (ideally even the house but hey there is only so much we can do!)...and to get on a budget so you know where your money is going.
With Dan's salary I always had the luxury of knowing we had enough money for what we needed. Mind you I never went on crazy shopping sprees or bought $100+ shoes...but I knew if I wanted a $3 Starbucks or a $30 sweater from JC Penney's I could get it...I also knew if I lost my job we made enough that we could handle it. Now I need to plan ahead and honestly I will probably be more comfortable with less money because I don't have to worry about where/what/who he is spending money on...
Oh and I just got back from signing up for "Mom Boot Camp". It is a 6-week program, M-W-F from 5:30-6:30 am. We had to get weighed and measured today (UGH!!!)and it starts either tomorrow or next Monday...JEFF--by week two we have to be off the bubbly stuff so I guess I will be back on the wagon...
