Yesterday when W was at the house picking up some of her stuff she left her wedding band (ouch!). This was not a surprise. She told me she was going to return it because it is a family heirloom.
I have always worn my wedding band. Feel naked without it. And, I have continued to wear it since we separated. On one hand, I feel like wearing it makes the statement, “We ARE still married.” On the other hand, does continuing to wear it at this point make me look clingy? If so, that’s the last thing I want to do.
Any thoughts?
H: 50 W: 48 Married 20 years Bomb and separation: 9/12/09 A discovered 12/02/09 http://tinyurl.com/yctnhec