A transparency plan would have to be very detailed and long, I think.
Not necessarily. A GPS on his car (where you can log on via internet and see where he is), a new cellphone # (with detailed billing, which comes to you), and a keylogger on his computer. Those three things would be about 90% "fireproof."
And (the more likely scenario) -- if he BALKS at any or all of them -- you can be 100% sure that he's still having contact with her.
That all being said, if he was SERIOUS about moving her into your home, I'd be gone-gone-GONE, and I'd throw everything I had at him, and then some, legally.
But that's just me.
Puppy
Ditto.
As for the money.
If you cannot deal with this on your own. Perhaps its time to sell and move to a place where you will not depend on his income.
p.s.
Option 4 would be to have it set up to automatically be deposited into the account.
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