here we go again

[bluerain]

I think thats true of a lot of Jeffs that I have met. Lol, there have been one, maybe two exceptions to that rule, but for the most part!

D2 sounds adorable.

So did he say that he doesnt respect women? Did I read that right? grrr... Ok, I dont think that there is anything wrong with calling someone on their bad behavior. It also seems like your conversations are just fights running in circles! I cant imagine how frustrating that must be. Does he want you to move in with his family? It really doesnt seem like thats what needs to happen... at all... why would he think thats a solution?

Unfortunately, Im not sure that I have much to offer in the way of advice, besides if he says that "you will never change" maybe respond with "we have had this conversation over and over again, and Im not doing it again." Or maybe "You just have not seen my changes, I have made many". I do like what you were saying to him about the life that you are making for yourself, and his life being the result of his choices. He needs to hear that, especially from you.

"Youll never change"... blech that reminds me of some housewife stamping her little feet throwing a fit.