Hey Gyps, this is not about defending yourself or proving anything to me...not at all. I choose to read and post to a few people that I have followed for a while and care for. When I see or rather read something that touches me, i write something. I just hope it helps....
You are who you are Gyps...no need to explain anything to me or anyone else. I for one enjoy reading you and hope you keep writing even if you think it is counterproductive.

Be Impeccable With Your Word
Don't Take Anything Personally
Don't Make Assumptions
Always Do Your Best
and.....choose to be happy Gyps