Ok..I have resolved the "miss you" and choose to ignorre it as I think it is his attempt to jerk the string and pull me in again, or take the temperature, or whatever...it is not in my best interest to respond.
But..
He needs to put money in the household account and I have always had to remind him this time of month to avoid going into overdraft.
1. I can call to remind him. 2. I can email to remind him. 3. Not remind him, and let him figure it out on his own.
I want to do #3, but also I do not want to give him a real reason for hostility towards me. Does that matter?
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
