I think he would like to have us both in one place. But this ain't Colorado City!!!! I can't imagine OW wanting to move in with me still here, although I am sure she wants to replace me and live my life, have my beautiful home, raise my kids, have my friends, etc. (According to common acquiantences, she wants kids of her own and at age 58, 5 kids..3 still at home for the 3 here to get over this abandonment. Kids do not care about parental happiness at their expense)...5 grandkids, and a vasec...he is not going to start over. His 5 are NOT going to have anything to do with her. It would take many many years. 2 years into their A, he has yet to introduce her to anyone...maybe he hasn't found the right bag for her head. I am no beauty but she is at best. gross. She is smart and is playing this pretty well. She did not account for our bond, 25 years, 3 kids, and loads of sacrifice, etc., that keeps him attached to me. She was only married ayear or two b4 they met at work, and has no kids, no bond as deep as ours can be imagined until felt/tested.
Legally, as long as keeps paying the bills, I am fine like this, at the moment.
That plan sounds too simple. I would want to put in place ways to check on the checkers!
I know I am going off on rants...trying to believe half of what I say.
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread