Rocked, just got home and catching up on everyone.

Sorry you had a bad day yesterday. BTDT. I'm with the others, write the letter then destroy it. It's a healthy way of getting the feelings out.

It is interesting that we end up hating the OW more. I was thinking about this before. Shouldn't we be angrier at our men because they were the ones who were in committed relationships? But I think you're right, because we have chosen to build a new R with them we have softened our stance.

I had always vowed to never be an OW because women should not do that to each other. I have a gf who was seeing a married man for a time. I read her the riot act. Why on earth would she mess with someone else's relationship? How would she feel if the situation were reversed? I told her to stop it immediately because karma is a bitch and it would catch up to her. And this was years ago before my sitch started.

Plus the one piece of advice my mother gave me that I have always remembered was this: Never marry a man who leaves his wife for you because he will leave you just as easily for the next one. Don't they see this? Grrr.

Ok, getting off my soap box. I hope you have a better day today and get to relax.

Last edited by pearlharbr; 01/10/10 06:29 PM.
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