"...And you are?" Names after the Divorce

[Silver Fox]

Just saw this on another thread. Perhaps this helps clarify a little more?

RW

We all have that anger towards OW and it can be very intense. They chose to step into a M seemingly without any thought as to what it would do to another woman. I don't care what they heard from our Hs , it is just not acceptable. They don't know our history, what issues we face and they participate in what is one of the most cruel things one woman can ever do to another.

Why is our anger at our Hs not as intense? It is tempered by love, as you say.