I will admit that if she took OM to family holiday things then she at least thinks that there is a chance at them having a long term R. What else do you know about him, I think you said he is divorced, with or w/o kids. What is his attitude towards kids if he does not have kids. If your W is like mine she probably doesn't talk about her kids when around him. I don't think my wife told the #2 OM that she was married/separated or had kids at all. Lets face it, kids complicate R and that will be a test. Could be she knows down inside that it won't work and is just not facing it b/c the R w/ OM provides an escape from reality.
Do you get the kids back today? Are they with you during the week for school purposes?
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