"...And you are?" Names after the Divorce

[Silver Fox]

john, I'm sure everyone of us understands that ultimately, the blame lies with the cheating H. But women are very alluring and POWERFUL. Men don't even realize they're being lured in - especially a very vulnerable MLC man.

What, in my sitch, kept OW from insisting "don't come my way again until you try to work things out with your W or until you complete a D". She did not do this - guilty as charged - Husband Stealing Skank.

I don't know why guys hardly mention the OM - just the difference between Mars and Venus I guess. Thank goodness we're different!

I think time and/or a new, healthly, mature relationship will put the X in that compartment in the back of our brain for good one day.