WAW Using God

[pigskin]

I went out last night as planned, W called to say their show was over and she was bringing the kids back home. Wanted me to come right back home so we could discuss the sleepover and allow it to happen. I refused, saying I was out like I had planned and we'd discuss it tomorrow.

W went into several other things over the phone, such as how she didn't know the extent of the boundary, how having OM pics in her phone, his number, links on facebook and other sites could be construed as "contact". She behaves like a 6 year old in regards to this stuff. If it wasn't spelled out like a legal contract, then she can say "you never told me that". Kind of like asking a child to pick up the socks on the floor then coming back and seeing other clothes strewn about. "Well you said pick up the socks, not the other stuff".

I asked her to consider what she would have felt if I had the exact same things with another woman back when we were early in our relationship. She said she wouldn't have liked it but she would understand how it meant a lot to me and how it takes time to get over this kind of thing. I can understand how an EA will induce withdrawal, and I'm trying to be sympathetic to that, but at the same time I can't allow the heroin to be anywhere near the junkie I'm trying to clean up.

W and kids slept in the house, we will discuss more today. I had a good time last night out with friends, not letting this spat bother me.