<<But after 1, 2, 3 years and certainly after the D, I think we deserve the right to skewer the skank whenever we feel like it.>>

I think we deserve the right to do alot of things....I have also noticed that much of the blame (from the ladies mostly) seems to be shifted to the "skanks", whereas us guys seem to blame the WAW and hardly mention the new guy or skunk.

I was just wondering (out loud) at what point the X (or whatever) should stay in a nice little compartment in the back of our brain and come out for less frequent visits....what can we do to keep them there and if some of us actually get something out of bringing them out on a regular basis.