I have a question for you--do you feel like no one believes what your gut tells you is true? Or do you just need WH to admit it?
The reason I ask is it seems sometimes like you are trying to find proof of all of this so you are not crazy, but on the outside looking in, I can tell you are right and WH is lying!!! about it all! I do realize you need proof for adultery to divorce, right?
SO did the coworker ever communicate with you?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004