Over the Shock and GALing 6

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So WOW, this has just gone BATSHIT CRAZY!!!

Where is our resident expert on BATSHIT CRAZY? Smiley??? Where you at?

I went upstairs and brushed my teeth and when I came into the master bedroom Mrs T screamed "there is NO WAY you are sleeping in this room tonight" - along with much profanity regarding me being out "f**king wh@res" etc. I've never seen her like that - ever.

My first thought = aha! She really is NOT sure she wants out of this M. But Coach chimed in with "Or she's a brat. She doesn't want you but can't abide the thought of anyone else having you." She is a puzzle! But I'm sticking with her not really wanting to D, just has NO CLUE how anything can change for the better. And I can relate to that in a way. There was a time when I thought things could not improve for us. And even when I moved home, we both had many moments of "Oh-oh ... how do we do this."

she began to hit me and kick me. No damage, but she persisted after I asked her to stop - so I called 911. She grabbed the phone and hung it up - and when the police called back, she hung up again - so of course they just showed up. Talked to me, then her, then me again, then left.

BGP

This is all over NOTHING

There is a lot more to "Nothing" in this case than meets the eye. There's a whole lot of "Something" going on with Mrs. T. You handled it just right. Your measure and level of adult, reasonable behavior HIGHLIGHTS for you (AND HER) how off balance she really is. She has real turmoil going on that she doesn't know how to pick apart.

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