Early on in my sitch, I'd take the opportunity to "cuddle" @ night. I guess somehow I thought it would fix it. It didn't - made it worse - she started shunning me like, like -well it wass bad.
Tough Love is what turned my WAS around a bit so far. I did better internally and she responded more when I was distant but not disrespectful.
But that only comes after you make the determination to love & respect yourself. Then next you come to the realization that if she didn't want to join in - than someone else will.
F the cuddling for now that's for HAPPILY Married folks and/or lovers.
I do hope it comes later - it does lead to some real good stuff!!
M43 W43 D11 S7 M18 T20 WAW is back & trying (no she was lying) Close to callin' it busted but.... watching Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.
