Newmama, Affairs yes, but the different orientation as well? I still would like to figure out what,if anything, to tell the children. Is there a thread on how much to divulge to kids. And where one draws the line at standing by your marriage, and walking away from it. Someone here said when you've reached the disgust stage, you've completely detached. I've reached that, and just don't see going back, which makes any DBing feel dishonest. Thanks for listening, Susan
