I hear you! I wish things were different. I really had hope in your sich with your H's sobriety. Guess it just goes to show some issues are not always A related!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!