GW (()) April is four months away, a lot can happen in that time! Try and put the time factor aside as best you can as it will create panic in your mind and then you might rush things and believe me these things cant be rushed, rushing only sets you back and to go full circle if youre short of time you cant afford to rush things
Yes your W being at home and returning to the bed after moving out is a definite advantage! I found out about DB just after I made the decision to give H his space so it was harder but I managed, only thing I'd say and this is me speaking personally is that if a WAS is on their own there is more time for them to experience the abandonment factor than the spouse at home, not so much has rocked their boat from their point of view they still have a roof over their head and a family and getting their own way to boot! so working on detaching from her is more important for you. Yes its supposed to be for you with the side effect of getting a spouse back, so remember that as that will lower your expectations when she gives you some time then backs off again.
Keep at it mate your doing very well, and certainly all the moral support I got on here kept me going so happy to chip in!
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!
