My W really did something to me when we were together for those 2 days.
I dropped my guard, and my defenses because I thought SHE was sincere, and wanted to work on our M.
I feel like a 2 time failure, as she just kicked me to the curb, like I was NOTHING.
How does a man handle that?
How does a W do that with no remorse?
I just can't process it. I really can't.
I feel like I've done something wrong, and I'm sitting here, waiting, for her to throw me a scrap of something-anyhting, to make me feel better about any of this.
She doesn't give 2 $hits about me, if she did, she wouldn't be playing my emotions like this.
Blah, blah, blah, blah.
I'm sorry SD, but this is probably your TWENTIETH post that says the same thing. "How could she do this? Why do I still care? Wasn't she sincere? How could I fall for this??"
Etc.
Etc.
Etc. STOP WALLOWING. It's not attractive, it's not EFFECTIVE, and you're harming yourself and delaying your healing.
You get some of the most (quantity) and best (quality) advice of any of the Newcomers, and yet 3/4ths of your posts are just these kinds of complaints. People are going to stop posting to you if you don't stop wallowing.
