yes, it's my husband but here comes the twist - we got married in 2003 and it happened in 2004
The story never got confirmed - which choice did I have then believing him - he threatened to leave back then.
I guess what I am getting at - if the story was a lie and he was cheating back then and never admitted it and then went abroad a year later - you can bet this has happened several times as he got away with it including the co-worker which would make my complete marriage a lie.
