Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

Lost R - thanks for the support. One of the things I have to learn to stop worrying about is time. I keep reading and seeing how much patience I need to have, but the problem is that we will move this summer and we will have to set up a move I'm guessing in April...and well that is stressful to me cause that is when she initially intended to drop the bomb and go for the D. Now that I am getting my emotions under control and working on GAL, I think I can live with this current arrangement and continue to DB and see where it goes, but i worry about running out of time. I've read enough here to know I am at an advantage with W still in the house and heck, even sleeping in the same bed (just sleep though, there is nothing more than that), the separate room thing only lasted 3 days before she moved back into our room.