The good news SD is that you don't have to have it all figured out right now. Do it at your own pace. Just be. Enjoy what enjoyment life has to offer you. Don't be in a rush to figure it all out, because there's no way you can. Nobody's putting a gun to your head to completely move on. Just be careful with how you deal with W and know that you don't have to have any firm decisions about her one way or the other just yet. This is the woman you married who you love who bore your sons. You don't have to have it all figured out. Vent, live, and sort through it at your own pace. But it is important to find those simple pleasures and appreciate your loved ones who are treating you right.
Age: 28 Wife's Age: 28 Relationship: 10 Years (dated on and off) Married: Less than one year Seperated: 1.75 years, finally served with D 4/30/2011