It's late (or early depending upon your POV) and I've been searching through the latest information on various discussion boards on trailer music and my personal favorite composers. Before I went to bed I thought I'd drop over here and see what is up.

V, I'm glad that what I've said clicked in a way that you finally "got." Pretty remarkable, huh? This is the way I've thought and processed info for as long as I can remember.

Just remember that some of the qualities you've built as a result of "something's wrong" can be some of our very best (even though you can still sense the personal dissatisfaction of the "something's wrong"). The next step is whether you are a victim of that or you make an active choice to go forward with that "way of being." And yes, lots of people have been trained to react in a certain way. Whether that's training you've provided or their own experience does not really matter, you are not aware of that andwhether you wish to allow that to continue unnoticed.

They, like my wife, might refuse to alter their behavior in the face of being presented (confronted) with their behavior. But that is different from them not knowing.

Anyway, have fun with the noticing of the reactions, and for fun make up outrageous interpretations for reactions to what is happening around you.

Keep me posted.

Your captain


Last sex: 04/06/1997
Last attempt: 11/11/1997
W Issues "No Means No" Declaration: 11/11/1997
W chooses to terminate sex 05/1998
I gained 60, then lost 85 pounds.
Start running again (marathons)