here we go again

[TrentC]

I've said it before and I'll say it again.

You might have to take your lumps and get the state involved. If he's working here illegally and trying to stay out of the system, then no good can come of that.

What about getting onto state assistance? Or a program like WIC? There are programs out there to help people in your position.

You need to get him out of your life. He doesn't feel any responsibility towards you or his daughter -- D2 sounds more like something he's interested in because it makes him feel like a grown-up.