Kinda stuck in limboland and not sure what to really do. Spouse had an A with a coworker. After one false R that lasted several months, finally got fed up and was going to leave. After a weekend at home to gather myself, was going to file. That weekend, W came over and asked me to reconcile. This was after I'd exposed the A and OM got in trouble. A couple of weeks later when I discussed it with her, she said she was unsure. I then went dark for a month or so. I moved away and things somewhat changed. She added me as a friend on social networking page and I get text messages from her a few times a week. We still share a piece of property, so she will sometimes contact me about it's upkeep. I have not brooched the marriage issue in several months. I don't get the impression she wants to do it, but I think she's comfortable with things the way they are. As for me, I am patiently waiting on things. However, I have found myself talking to several women casually. Any suggestions on how to proceed with the wife? And what do I tell anybody else?
