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Rocked - good info/perspective as usual. That makes sense. I reacted last night, but not today, so that I can be happy about. I did good today. I know it. She has no idea I was in a foul mood most of the day, I hid it completely. She had no clue that I was taking the kids to McDs to escape her.
Now she's in the basement again, I've got the girls, again. She has legitimate work to do for the funeral coming up, but I find it interesting that she tells me she wants to get started now, not wait till the girls go bed, and asks what would I like to do later. Implying that we potentially spend some time together.
There is also a password on her phone again, that will a topic of discussion here soon, maybe tonight, maybe tomorrow. The good thing is that it isn't bothering me like I thought it would. I just kind of shook my head. Baby steps detaching, but I'm starting to make progress. Last time W had a password, W admitted it was to keep me out, and she took it off after I exposed the EA.

Rocked - I made it thru more of your sitch today, wow, how did you so quickly get your frame of mind where it needed to be back then? It seemed almost overnight, you got to where you needed to be.