Bunny,
Right here:
Originally Posted By: SpinFree
SB's H doesn't *know* how to relate to SB in a healthy, adult, committed relationship.
SpinFree sums up and nails what dozens of us have used thousands of words to try to convey - to convince!

Bravo, SpinFree!!

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac