How do you go dark when you must have almost daily contact about the kids? I am really doing better at NC. Unless absolutely necessary, I do not contact him for anything----but only reply when he contacts me. I do not ask him for anything, or ask about anything.I would love to go completely dark, but just can't since he is still involved with the kids.
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
