well trust me i have done that, to the point of when i'm supposed to be on maternity leave i have paid week the rest no income. told him and it's oh i can't get a job because of everify, ur the one with the education, i'll watch the baby, of course at his mommies so he can ditch both kids.

wednsday he's i'll bring money thurs or frid, the days pass, i call him on it, tell him he's not following thru, asked again today and only way i got money was for me to drive to get it at his house.

he's like oh come in, i'm like uh you want me to come in where your mother says i've tried to kill everybaby i've been pregnant with, where she shakes her ass at me, where i'm ignored, don't think so besides hoarders gross me out.

i pulled up across teh street, d2 in car, gave him 3 minutes, he walked up to car to try to open door my auto locks on, i told h to go to my window, he said hi to d2 opened teh window just enought to get the money and drove off.

of course i'm upset for ride home and until now, can't stand him his choices everything.

i'm gonna have to deal with this crap for rest of my life since i have kids with him. i'm gonna move out of state or so far that i don't have to have him play games, mess me with.


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline