WAW in affair. Help!

[Gardener]

Norm,

Up to now, I’ve been very friendly with OM at the gym in order to keep the guard down. Now that the guard is up, I’m doing a 180. I’m going to SUDDENLY STOP being friendly. I won’t be overtly mean or nasty. But I will be COLD AS ICE. I’m going to make that guy as uncomfortable as I possibly can. I’m going make the both of them wonder what I know and/or how I know it. No more Mr. Niceguy.

I suspect W will just write it off. But I don’t think OM will. He has too much to lose. I’m going to make him as nervous as a cat in a room full of rockers.

I don’t have to stand idly by and watch this happen like a helpless baby, and I won’t. I’m done being the victim and I’m going on the offensive. Yes, W will get pissed. Let her. As someone else wrote, our marriage can handle her anger, but it cannot handle her adultery.

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Thanks to all who read and post. I love you all and my heart goes out to every one of you.

Norm

Thanks to you, too, Norm.