Over the Shock and GALing 6

[Thinker]

Thanks for the Support!

@City/Girl, yes, she will often avoid answeing a direct question. In this case, she was putting away christmas decorations (and being ugly and snippy) when I pulled her aside and started the conversation. Her "I want to put away christmas decorations" was her way of trying to avoid answeing all together.

@Trixi, yes, she plays the victim well. She has played the role throughout our sitch, blaming me for everything she feels and everything she does or doesn't do. She consistently gets upset and angry any time I point out to her that d is a choice SHE is making. She really really really wants to pin the whole thing on me.

@Greek: Thank You.

This D is going to be tough for me because she is going to force me to take al of the action and will blame me for every piece of unpleasantness she faces as a consequence. This is a difficult path for me as a habitual pleaser.